Philosophical Ranting

It is good for a woman to keep her sense of her own perfection and imperfection in tact. She must see, even if only in secret, that she is the most magical woman in her world, which she should see as being the most absurd world of all times. Laughter changes the look of things. Not everything you do is going to be a masterpiece but you get out there and you try and sometimes it really happens. The other times you are simply stretching your soul...........

Monday, April 10, 2006

Assault Via Text Message

I went out on Friday for a lovely dinner with my two cousins and my aunt, after studying late the night before and going to school and work. As I drove home in the pouring rain I thought to myself "What an exhausting period of my life!" When I got home I took a bath and snuggled into my pjs and began to write in my journal, relishing in the alone quiet time and the rare opportunity for rest. At 11:30 pm, I receive the following text messages:

Michael: "What are you up to?"
Teaser: "Resting after a long day, and u?"
Michael: "Are you up for a movie?"
Teaser: "There are no movies playing at this time"
Michael: "Yes there are, at my house silly"
Teaser: " Actually I am exhausted, can we plan for tomorrow?"
Michael: "This is my only down time!" Maybe next Week!

Now if I am not mistaken, that is an exclamation point after that text.That is the equivalent of text message assault. Just because I am your Friday night Plan B, (because plan A made at 8:00 must have obviously fallen through) and I don't want to drive across town at midnight after being notified at 11:30, to sit on your couch for our second date , does not give you the right to use exclamation points with me. Second, anybody who wants to use having a busy life as an excuse can kiss my ass, because I know busy like the back of my hand and I am telling you that I don't feel like hearing that from some privileged, full time Business student who has classes only on Thursday and Friday, lives downtown and plans random trips to Sweden and South Africa . After all, I am not only a full time law student facing finals far more grueling than those in B-school, and maintaining a JOB at a law firm to keep food on the table. So I essentially have no down time, but I could've made some were I dealing with someone who asked me to the right way.

But my real problem was the sheer assumption that because he gave me a shot, I was supposed to jump at it. I have never been pressed enough to run across town on call, and I'm not about to start now. He obviously does not respect my time enough to call me at a reasonable hour and ask me on a reasonable date, or respect my fatigue enough to let me rest and study tonight while we plan to meet tomorrow. I have everything going on, if not more than most men do and your couple hours of down time are not god's gift. Next week, do better!

6 Comments:

  • At 4:35 PM, Blogger Cool AC said…

    Ok, um, yeah I am pissed that he assulted you via text. We have banned kicking it, especially on the late night...if anything he should be coming to you. (That is if you wanted him to!)

     
  • At 12:59 PM, Anonymous c-ker said…

    Amen! I had that same revelation this weekend. These Negros have no couth.

     
  • At 11:17 AM, Blogger TTD said…

    i hear that sh*t! he shoulda put a question mark behind it.. and he should've asked you way in advance.. 11:30 is booty call hours!

     
  • At 10:10 AM, Anonymous adjunct blog nazi said…

    Can we get an update please? I know you are out of school now. [tapping foot while shaking head]

     
  • At 4:56 PM, Anonymous k kookie said…

    Philosophically rant teaser, we're all waiting...

     
  • At 2:59 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I think that the "busy" line is completely over the top in general. Life is about priorities. Technically, we are all busy w/ something...he's clearly busy pretending to be more important than he really is.

     

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